“For the living know that they will die, but the dead know nothing; they have no further reward, and even their name is forgotten” – Ecclesiastes 9:5 – serves as a sobering reminder of life’s fleeting nature.
These words resonate deeply in the light of the recent release of former Nigerian military president Ibrahim Babangida’s memoir, “A Journey in Service“.
The book launch, held on February 20, 2025, at the Transcorp Hilton Hotel in Abuja, brought together a surprising mix of supporters, critics, and even former adversaries. While many commended Babangida for his reflections on his time in leadership, others questioned the absence of acknowledgment for those who lost their lives as a result of his decisions.
This moment has sparked important conversations about forgiveness, reconciliation, and the urgency to mend relationships while we are still alive.
The Bible emphasizes that death marks the end of all earthly opportunities for action or resolution. Ecclesiastes 9:10 reminds us: “Whatever your hand finds to do, do it with all your might, for in the realm of the dead, where you are going, there is neither working nor planning nor knowledge nor wisdom.” This verse calls on us to live purposefully and strive to leave behind a legacy of peace and integrity.
At the heart of Babangida’s memoir lies a complex legacy. His tenure as Nigeria’s leader was marked by significant achievements but also controversial decisions – most notably the annulment of the 1993 presidential election. While some at the book launch praised his leadership and vision, others pointed out that those who suffered or died during his administration can no longer speak for themselves or seek justice. Their silence serves as a poignant reminder that only the living can forgive, reconcile, and praise God.
Isaiah 38:19 declares: “The living, the living—they praise you, as I am doing today.” This verse highlights an essential truth: only those who are alive have the opportunity to make things right with others and with God.
Forgiveness is a gift we can extend while we still breathe; reconciliation is a bridge we can build before it is too late.
The presence of Babangida’s former critics at his book launch underscores another biblical principle: reconciliation is possible even among those with deep-seated differences.
As we reflect on Babangida’s memoir and its mixed reception, let us remember the urgency of forgiveness and reconciliation. Life is fragile and fleeting; once death comes, there are no more opportunities to mend broken relationships or seek justice.
In conclusion, Babangida’s memoir serves as a reminder that while history may judge our actions after we are gone, only while we are alive can we make amends. Let us live with purpose (Ecclesiastes 9:10), forgive generously (Matthew 6:14), reconcile earnestly (Matthew 5:23-24), and praise God wholeheartedly (Isaiah 38:19). For it is only in life that we can truly honor God and build bridges of peace with one another.
Omole is based in New Jersey, USA
